A woman I know snagged a boyfriend when she described her ideal job as a combination of circus performer and archaeologist. Never try or expect to change somebody into your ideal. If you like her - great; however, if you sense that there Free Dating is tension, do your best to remove yourself from the situation and calmly discuss it with your boyfriend. Don't waste your time when you know in your heart of hearts that it's not going to be right, she says. Hugging the teddy will mean that you are missing me and so on... Included in this list should be: your personality traits and those of a desired mate, your physical traits, and the desired physical traits your mate will have, as well as interests and hobbies, religion and beliefs (both yours and if your mate must be the same religion or hold a similar belief system or lack thereof), desire for children and your willingness to accept another's children, your communication style, etc. Never compare two people to one another, this wont go down well.